Uncertainty Is The Only Adoption Certainty

The gray clouds of uncertainty are omnipresent in adoption.  I have come to accept this as fact. All parents experience unpredictability, but adoption amplifies it.  The exaggerated uncertainty for me is a result of self-doubt and the constant fear of the unknown. Adoption’s uncertainty will test any family’s mettle.  These dense, gray clouds continue to … [Read more…]

The Questions I Asked About Adoption I Now Answer

I welcome all adoption related questions.  I love to talk about our process with anyone that is interested. I’m asked two questions most frequently: How much did the process cost? Why did you adopt? These questions are perfectly acceptable – I welcome them with two caveats for the person asking. First, I’m less comfortable openly … [Read more…]